It’s hard for so many of us to feel true pleasure. We don’t allow ourselves to feel good. It doesn’t really make any sense. Why? Why would we block ourselves from the pleasure and good feelings that are ours to have? If we thought nothing about our life or our day would feel good, would we even get out of bed? What would be the point? Read the article here
This week I was teaching about the sexual empowerment element of HOME in my Fire Woman Program and we dug into all the ways we learn to leave ourselves. Self-abandonment is the biggest reason people struggle in relationship--and all that goes with it. If you experienced some kind of abandonment as a child, you were taught implicitly that leaving yourself is the way you survive.
I’ll never forget my first kiss with my partner. It may sound cheesy, and there may have been enough tequila in my system to get a rhinoceros drunk, but there were fireworks. His lips were so soft, he applied the right amount of pressure, and smelled so good. I didn’t know he’d become my boyfriend at the time, but I knew I wanted him to be. Read the full article here.